2nd Corinthians 1:6-7
The troubles we go through can range from easy to extremely horrible. But even then, it depends on the person and their past traumas. What really bothers me might not bother you at all. Even though we don’t live by our feelings, we must realize that people are different.
We should do our best to comfort our families & friends when they go through anything they consider trouble. Paul endured being chained to jailers, in jail, and shipwrecked simply because he was teaching about Jesus. (Thankfully we can do that without persecution.) People took care of Paul. They took him food, gave him money, and prayed for him. We can do that for people too.